What if you met your soulmate?!?
A lot has happened since my last post.
A trip to the sandy beaches of Goa. The soul-searching "Rang De Basanti". A rocking yet moving concert by Indian Ocean. But above all, I met my soulmate.
What do you do if you met your soulmate??
Would you tell her? Would you hold on to her? Or would you continue with your journey as if it never mattered?
I know she is as much as mine as I'm as much as hers. But we just cannot be together. We both know that. For what we have gone through.
Don't you think it's so debilitating to know you can't do anything about it?
Why?!?
A trip to the sandy beaches of Goa. The soul-searching "Rang De Basanti". A rocking yet moving concert by Indian Ocean. But above all, I met my soulmate.
What do you do if you met your soulmate??
Would you tell her? Would you hold on to her? Or would you continue with your journey as if it never mattered?
I know she is as much as mine as I'm as much as hers. But we just cannot be together. We both know that. For what we have gone through.
Don't you think it's so debilitating to know you can't do anything about it?
Why?!?
posted by jey at 5:15 AM
2 Comments:
hey jer,
there is just one answer to ur question.the answer has to be tht, if u ve found her,hold on to her....no journey is complete without ur soulmate...mark my words buddy...
its all in ur hands and u for sure, can definitely do something abt it...
"I just dont believe in soulmates. I believe in giving it your best shot whoever you are with - whether she is your soulmate or not. The two of you have to work together to make it happen." Are you the same person who wrote this on your blog six months before writing this post? If yes, then my heart goes out to you.......
To date I wonder if the person who said "It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" fully knew the meaning of what he said. Momentarily perhaps he is right... that is till we can keep living in the past.... reliving each and every of those happy moments thinking that I am so glad to have found her.... even though I had to lose her. But what if in your passion you decide that she is your best friend your soul mate. that though you may find another better individual you will never be able to rekindle that bond. What if as time passes and as life moves on you realise one day that you are never able to let go.... That you will perhaps never be able to love again with that freshness.. that you will never be able to give 100%. What then... then it is a pain you carry deep down in your heart forever. Dearie... I do not believe in the saying "If you love someone let him go... etc etc". Cuz.. once you let someone go' you cannot expect her to walk back in your life. I on the other hand believe that if you love someone then you have to work hard at holding her back.... that you have to hold on to whatever you have got... or you run the risk of making her feel that she didnt matter that much anyways... But dearie... you cant hold on to someone who doesnt want to stay... I hope all is not lost.... I hope you never have to let go...... I hope I am not too late to hope.....
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